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Sleeping, Skating and Secrets to getting ready

Sleeping
To prepare for having a baby in an open air loft with one bedroom, we knew we had to be crafty with the baby sleeping arrangement. We had no idea what to expect with baby temperament, but we knew from reading books and talking to other parents that for the first two months, you have to get up so much during the night that it may be better to keep baby close for convenience.

Kyle mentioned that he read something in his dad book, Be Prepared (really funny book, btw), that a newborn can safely sleep in many makeshift beds, including dresser drawers. We have a nice external california closet in our bedroom with drawers that are perfect bassinet size. In my attempt at baby minimalism, I simply bought an organic mattress from Absolute Organic Baby to custom fit the drawer. In addition to the drawer option, I wanted something more portable, so after extensive research, I found the baby Miyo Baby Hammock (shown left) designed by New Zealanders. You can see a video demonstration of the sling here. The hammock is great because it mounts to any standard door frame and folds up nicely for travel.

For the first few months, colicky Annika traded beds A LOT. She went back and forth from the drawer, to a boppy pillow on our bed, to sleeping next to me in bed. We have just now gotten into a more regular sleeping schedule with the hammock. Now, at almost 5 months, Annika loves the Hammock.

Secrets of getting ready
Annika
LOVES white noise (clothes dryer, hair dryer, sleepmate white noise, microwave fan), so I have the pleasure of drying my hair with a toy attached to the cord for visual stimulation. She goes nuts!
Ice Skating
We bundled Annika up in her polar bear outfit, courtesy of Auntie Cory, to brave the 28 degree weather (10 degree wind chill), and go skating at the Fresh Pond dog swimming area. During the summer, it’s nice to take the dogs here and sit on the benches, but it makes for a perfect ice skating destination in the winter. The wind was too much for Annika so I got maybe 15 minutes of skating in, but it was really nice. I also fell on my tailbone because I was skating backward while playing with Gordo (our pug) and someone had thrown a rock on the ice while it was melting (since frozen). My skate hit the rock and I hit my ass. ouch.

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I heart breastfeeding and baking brownies

Breastfeeding
Besides medical reasons, I don’t understand why women choose not to breastfeed? Breastfeeding = weight loss. That should be reason enough, and there’s so many more reasons…bonding, free, convenient, protection for the baby against sickness and on and on.
When getting dressed today, I decided to try on some jeans that I haven’t wore since I closed MoCo in July 2008 – AND THEY FIT! What a fantastic start to the day, and I owe it mostly to breastfeeding.
I guess I should also mention that I get my butt whipped every Saturday at the gym during a circuit training class and that Annika and I enjoy Mommy and Me aerobics every Friday and that I try to walk around Fresh Pond every other day and the newly rigged Burly trailer helps me bike Annika around. So I do get my fair share of exercise. And then there’s the not eating dairy or gluten because of her intolerances.

Baking Brownies
My mother in law got me yummy gluten free brownies for Christmas and she gave Kyle an all end pieces brownie pan after he protested his love for them on facebook. We tried it out this past Saturday and they turned out delicious!
All this brownie business makes us sleepy.

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Weekend of Food, Valentines, Bicycles and Presidents

Best Valentine’s Day present ever was having Kyle for a three day weekend because of President’s Day.

Speaking of presidents, we watched the documentary produced by Edward Norton, By the People on Friday night. The documentary film that was originally about a young senator who had the ability to inspire the youth turned into a behind the scenes play by play of the 2008 election primaries. There were great scenes of the Obama family, Axelrod, Plouffe and interviews with big media. The best part about the film was that it transported me out of this negative gridlock that is our political system back into the time of hope. I have to believe that Obama will move us beyond this crap.
Kyle took Annika grocery shopping on Saturday while I worked out and bought ingredients to make Shepherd’s Pie. I made some gluten free crust for it and it turned out really well.
On Sunday morning, Valentine’s Day, I made Gluten free banana pancakes that turned out oh-so fluffy, apple chicken sausage, bacon and a feta-tomato-onion scramble.

Pancake Recipe:

  • 2 c. Bob’s all purpose gluten free flour
  • 1 tsp. xanthum gum
  • 1 tbsp. baking powder
  • 1 tsp. salt
  • 2 eggs
  • 3 tbsp. oil
  • banana
  • 1 tbsp. cinnamon
  • 3 tbsp. sugar
  • 2 tbsp. honey
  • 3/4 c. soy milk
  • 1/4 c. goat yogurt
  • 1/4 c. applesauce

Mix wet ingredients in blender. Sift dry ingredients and add to wet ingredients gradually.
Since Kyle and I aren’t hip on the Vday consumer thing, we rode our bikes with Annika in tote in the Burley trailer to Target and Crate & Barrel to spend gift cards that we had received. Kyle had his eye on some ear phones at Target and I wanted more lighting for our loft. After 5 minutes of hard core decision laboring at Crate & Barrel, we decided on this beauty.
Biking with Baby:
When I was still pregnant, I often thought about how I could bike with Annika. Because I cycled every day of the pregnancy until 2 days past my due date, I was jonesin’ to get back in the saddle after she was born, but I new it would take careful consideration. I was concerned with functionality, ease of use and safety, of course. We have owned a Burley Trailer for about 4 years now. It was originally bought for towing the dogs or camping. I was pretty dead set against using the trailer to transport Annika because my only experience with it was on dedicated bike trails, not street traffic. But, I knew there was no way she was going to be on the bike in a seat until she could wear a helmet so the trailer was my only option.
Kyle harnessed her car seat base into the trailer so getting her in and out would be a simple click away. And as far as the safety issue is concerned, she is strapped into the car seat just like she would be in a car. Both the roll bar on the car seat and the roll bar on the trailer protects her head. Technically, this rig is not legal for her because Massachusetts law states that all children must wear a helmet, but I would argue that she is much safer this way than a child wearing a helmet, sitting in a seat mounted on the bike.
Pros:

  1. protects her from the elements – wind, cold, rain, street dust
  2. efficient – not that much heavier
  3. load bearing – I can toss a bunch of stuff in the trailer with her
  4. sturdy – absorbs shocks from street potholes and bumps
  5. compatibility – switches between different bikes
  6. safe
  7. snooze machine – she passes out!

Cons:

  1. set up – takes about 5 minutes to attach the trailer (luckily we’re blessed to live in a condo that provides an outdoor bike shed)
  2. big footprint – hard to store
  3. expensive

And to top off the Valentine’s Day, I bought this appropriately branded Cabernet, Cyles Gladiator, from Darwins LTD. on our hot chocolate pit stop. I’m a sucker for labeling. Speaking of labeling, I just visited the wine’s website and it turns out that they are banned in Alabama because it’s deemed pornographic. Oh Alabama, I’m speechless. If anyone wants to buy me a present, I’d love the t-shirt, ‘banned in Alabama’ from their website.

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Christmas Trees in Garbage Bags and Doggies on the Bus

The Christmas garbage was collected this past week and before it was, we had the displeasure of viewing skyscrapers of gift boxes, unrecycled bags of wrapping and Christmas trees in garbage bags on our dog walks. Even though all the trash bothers me, the tree in a bag is especially disturbing. To cut a tree down for a couple month’s use and then dispose of it in a garbage bag seems really perverse. But like always, I feel like I’m not the norm and these thoughts are unreasonable.

CBS Sunday Morning episode yesterday contained a small segment narrated by Joel Sartore, a National Geographic photographer, about his lament over seasonal garbage, especially the trash produced by Christmas. I was happy to learn that I was not crazy in my ill views. I wish I could post a video of this segment.

On a happier note, we took Gordo and Carmelita to the Commons yesterday on the bus! Gordo was such a good boy, sitting on the bus seat and Carmelita tried to seduce all the riders she could. We finally got Gordo a harness (so he doesn’t choke himself) at Four Preppy Paws on Charles Street. They were really nice to the dogs, giving them treats and letting us wash the salt off their feet.

Then we walked the dogs through the Commons along the Swan Pond before the bus ride home. Walking on the frozen pond with the dogs was fun and Gordo found a black puggie to play with.

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Request to come see us in Boston

We would love to have visitors in Boston, so here’s our invitation to anyone (it gives me a reason to post pictures of our place, finally). We’re a half mile walk from a major subway station, 1.5 mile walk downtown, and .8 mile walk to the beach!
This is our basement with a nice wet bar / wine fridge, dart board (courtesy of Kasi & Eric). We have a nice terrace out back where the porch swing that my dad made us for our wedding will hang. Note the dorkery hanging above the wet bar…our diplomas in sequential order from McIntosh High School, University of Georgia and University of Wisconsin.

Other half of our basement. This is where we watch the really good flicks. You can also see this is where we store our bikes.

Kitchen that’s nice to cook in and we managed to fit our dining room table in.
Our living room next to the kitchen.
Deck off the kitchen. The freezing rain blanket doesn’t help me dress it up, but it will be nice during the warmer months.

Main floor bathroom /laundry. Hard to come by laundry in unit in Boston.

Upstairs foyer where we’re slowly building our wall family and friends pictures.

Our bedroom that gives us lots of sunlight and views of the illuminated Boston night sky (it’s orange / yellow when it’s cloudy).

Office that provides a nice view of Tudor Street where I ‘work’.

Guest Bed for visitors 😉

Upstairs full bath.

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Making Our Nest

The combination of our new living situation and a recent article in Dwell article called “At Home in the Zone” about practicing sustainability like you preach inspired me to start blogging again. This post is going to show pictures of our new place along with what sustainability means in our lives.

I am copying Dwell’s article format where they break down a households’ zones and give tips on how people can be more sustainable.
Location has so much to do with sustainability. Whether you can walk or bike to grab your basic necessities affects your carbon footprint dramatically. Additionally, do you WANT to walk or ride your bike in your neighborhood. Walkscore.com gives a good indication of how easy it will be to buy groceries, visit the library or park, go hang out at a coffee shop all by foot. There are 2 faults with this website, though. Fault 1 – The website uses google maps to calculate a walkscore so any business or other registered with google will appear…even if the info is outdated. Fault 2 – there is an emotional factor that is pretty impossible to calculate and that is the general feeling of a neighborhood. For example, our condo in Madison on Willy Street has a walk score of 89 out of 100 and is located in a fantastic community where you want to walk or ride your bike. Our first house here in Boston in Southie had a walk score of 88 and a terrible sense of community. There was trash and dog shit on the sidewalks, lack of trees, shady people walking around, Kyle was jumped by high school age kids and badly beaten up, and our bikes were stolen from right under our noses. Totally different than Willy Street even though the score only differed by 1 point. Lastly, our new place in Cambridge has a walk score of 80 and is pretty par with our place in Madison. The dog park, fresh pond, that I will reference later, is a huge plus!
Last month, Livable Streets Alliance held a Street Talk on Urban Health where Russ Lopez talked about how our built environment shapes ourselves like proximity to necessities like grocery stores effects a person’s health. He brought up the conflict between environmentalists and urbanists. Here I thought they could be the same? Apparently environmentalists don’t like cities because they’re dirty. Russ disagrees with teaching inner city children to respect their environment because, really, what is their environmental impact? They take mass transportation, don’t consume much… This is the only thing that I very much disagreed with Russ on. If children were taught to respect their environment and community, maybe there would be less trash on the streets and sidewalks. After living in Southie and experiencing a community first hand that does not respect the environment nor their community, I wanted to run for the suburbs. I was so sick of city living that I was willing to compromise our car free life. If I, who am a pretty staunch urbanist, want to flee for the burbs, how does a normal person feel about living in the city with communities like this? Inner city communities don’t have to be gentrified to feel great; neighbors just need to respect one another and their living space.
Transportation, part of location, has a direct effect on your lifestyle. We will not live anywhere where a car is a necessity. We have a motorcycle and 5 bikes. To get to work, Kyle takes 1 of 3 buses that regularly run by our place and then he takes a free shuttle from Genzyme corporate headquarters out to the Framingham burbs where he works. When the weather is nice, he commutes via motorcycle. I do all the errands and go to the gym on my bike. We are members of Zipcar for the times when you REALLY need a car like escaping the city for the weekend or a trip to IKEA.
Parks, Cambridge’s Fresh Pond is literally out our back door. We exit the loft, open a fence door to a walk down abandoned railroad tracks (that I think will soon be a bike path), and 200 ft. to fresh pond. The dogs can leave and return from the loft leash-less if we like. Fresh Pond is a large reservoir that is surrounded by a golf course and limestone path with periodic doggie bag / trash stations. There are no fences and the whole park is considered off-leash. There’s even a side pond / dock / wading pool for dogs. Too bad both our dogs are not water loving. The best part is that it’s a shared space between bicyclists, walkers, runners and dog walkers. Everyone is so happy to be there. I’ve run around the pond and it’s a 2 mile loop. Animal Planet was there a couple weeks ago shooting a special so look out for that. I can’t wait to take the stroller and baby to the park and do the walking loop every day.
Memorial Drive along the river, is closed to cars on Sundays and it’s super close by. Here’s a video about it:

Grocery Stores, a large chain store with organics and a pretty big micro/craft beer selection is a 5 minute walk across the parking lot from us. Plus, we’re lucky to live across the Fresh Pond from the largest Whole Foods in Boston. The bike path connects us there.

Inside the Loft
Space and Design, only 750 sq. ft. so we had to sell 3/4 of what we owned before on craigslist and ebay. Now we have no clutter and nothing that we don’t need or use on a regular basis…except for some scrapbooks, memorabilia, comic books, and coin collections. The unit has 16 ft ceilings, bamboo and rough pine floors, clean, white walls, and the outside wall is one large brick/warehouse window.
Furnishings, not only did we have to sell items on craigslist, but we had to replace a few. I found a west elm sofa, crate & barrel chair/ottoman, and west elm media stand all used on craigslist. We needed a few new storage items to help us get organized (container store and IKEA are great for this), plus I wanted a new duvet and rug. We hung all of Kyle’s guitars on the walls as well as my bike. Our other three bikes are kept in a special bike storage shed outside.
Baby is coming, so how is a baby fitting into this small space equation? I have our back storage space by the bathroom equiped with baby personal care. The washer/dryer is also next to the bathroom to make washing the diapers easy. The shelves in our living room are filled with boxes for toys and other accessories. We’re going to find a pack-n-play for the living room to double as a changing station and crib. Otherwise, the baby will sleep next to us in a hanging crib like a Kanoe. Obviously, this is idealistic and things will change, but it’s definitely possible to raise a baby in a small space. Think of how moms in Manhattan, Japan, and even Africa cope with space…I feel pretty lucky.


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Car-free = Merry Christmas and Happy Birthday to me


My 32nd birthday present to myself was selling our car. Kyle and I sold our ’97 Honda CRV within 4 days of listing it on Craigslist for the asking price and now we are officially car-free! Kyle still has his motorcycle, but it’s not used for necessary travel, but leisure during the warm months. It has been a dream of mine to be car-free for 5 years and the dream came true a day before my birthday.

We have barely touched the CRV since moving to downtown Madison in 2005. Additionally, since we have moved to Boston, we have only used our car to move and for unnecessary trips. It was definitely time for that car to be sold. All of our errands and trips to work are done on bike, foot or mass transit (Kyle’s company subsidizes part of his subway card and the rest is taken out of his paycheck pre-tax). I was a little nervous this past week with the huge snowstorm we got, but I found out our lifestyle is still doable.

On the night of the huge snowstorm, Friday, we bundled up with our ski goggles and walked 40 minutes to a friend’s cocktail party and then walked home. There is no feeling like layering on the winter gear and walking through snow and wind – the weather lets you know you’re alive.

We pretty much stuck close to home on Saturday, but had to get groceries while it was still snowing, so we got bundled up again and loaded the milk crate and canvas totes on the back of my bike. With all the double parking in Southie, the ride was pretty miserable, but we effectively loaded 0 worth of groceries on my bike and Kyle’s back and got home with no worries of finding a parking space.

Monday was an adventure and I’m still sore. We received a rainy sleet mixture on Sunday so I knew the roads were unbikable, so I decided to literally run my errands in the 15 degree chill. Everything would have been fine except for two things: 1) unshoveled sidewalks that even the walkers chose the road instead of and 2) being hard to breath because of the mucus factor…I was spitting every block. So I accomplished going to yoga, running to the post office to get stamps for Xmas cards and running down to office max to get printer ink. All in all, it was a 3.5 hour work-out.

Tuesday, I did not want to run, so I used Kyle’s mountain bike that has burlier tires. I dropped off a deposit at the bank, went to the gym and rode to Newbury street to get more ink for the printer at Best Buy. All of this while spraying gross brown and salty slush up my back and on my shoes, competing with double parked a-holes, and walking my bike on the unwalkable sidewalk.

If all of this sounds exhausting, it kinda is, but guess what? I have no stress, I sleep well at night, and besides my gluten intolerance, I can eat whatever the hell I want. Plus, I get to SEE and interact with people, not get frustrated with their driving styles and honk my car horn.

An article from the AP came out on the day after my birthday entitled “Leaner nations bike, walk and use mass transit.” The secret that all of us lifestyle bicyclists and alternative commuters share is no longer a secret. We’re happier and healthier. For me, the car-free life happened without choice when I was 20. I totalled my car in college at UGA in Athens and was forced to ride my dad’s awesome Trek bike. That was the beginning of the rest of my life and although I succumbed to buying a car again (because that’s the American way of life), I am living the car-free life again.

Today’s agenda- buy Christmas tree, last minute groceries, yoga, gift for my husband, Christmas service, dinner and a movie…all on bike and foot. I hope your holiday is as blissful as mine.

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E-Waste Photography

I’m attending the Greener Gadgets conference in NYC on Feb. 27th and couldn’t be more excited after seeing this video. It took me 5-6 years to buy another cell phone and I’m glad I waited so long after seeing this.

Maybe Verizon and other cellphone companies should rethink their ‘new every 2’ promotion?

Please check out Chris Jordan’s photography of beautiful ugliness.

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Two Boston Events by Next American City Magazine

the LECTURE: The Real State of Housing
January 21, 5:30-7:30 PM
Boston Room, Boston Public Library
700 Boylston Street, Copley Square, Boston, MA

Join Next American City at the Boston Public Library for the second talk in our URBANEXUS lecture series, featuring Angus Jennings, principal planner at Concord Square Planning & Development. Are you young, eager to buy and finding yourself priced out of Boston’s desirable neighborhoods? Join Angus as he breaks down Boston’s current real estate market and introduces smart growth zoning as as an affordable solution.
Admission is free. Find directions and RSVP at americancity.org/urbanexus/boston.
ANGUS JENNINGS is the Principal Planner for Concord Square Planning & Development, a firm dedicated to working with both municipal and development partners who share a commitment to smart growth. Angus manages most of the firm’s public sector contracts, including planning, zoning and public facilitation. He has served as the Town Planner in Marshfield, where he received the 2005 Massachusetts Association of Planning Directors Chapter Award. He served on the state committee to draft regulations for the 40R legislation, led two statewide workshops on form-based regulation supported by a grant from the American Planning Association and is active in several statewide planning organizations including the Zoning Reform Working Group. Upon receiving his master’s degree in City & Regional Planning at Cornell University, he received the American Institute of Certified Planners student award for promise of success as a professional planner.
the SALON: Urban Art in Public Spaces
January 22, 6-8 PM
Mills Gallery, Boston Center for the Arts
539 Tremont Street, Boston, MA
Join Next American City at the Mills Gallery for our URBANEXUS salon. Guests of honor include Janet Echelman, sculptor of large-scale public art; Ricardo Barreto, director of the UrbanArts Institute at Massachusetts College of Art; and Sarah Hutt, artist and business consultant focused on integrating art into landscape. The night will feature food, drinks and a salon-style conversation on the physical and financial challenges artists face while creating urban art in Boston. NAC limited edition artists Rachel Barrett and Neil Freeman will also introduce their art.
Admission for non-subscribers is in advance or at the door and includes a free one-year subscription to Next American City, and entry to all NAC events & free food/drink. RSVP and subscribe at americancity.org/urbanexus/boston.
JANET ECHELMAN uses her art to reshape urban airspace with monumental public sculptures that respond to environmental forces like wind, water, and sunlight. In 2009, Janet inaugurates two major art commissions in North America. Exhibitions of her painting, prints, and sculpture have been held in Venice, Madrid, Bombay, Jakarta, Hong Kong, Kyoto, and New York City. After graduating from Harvard College in 1987 with Highest Honors in Visual Studies, she received graduate degrees in painting and in psychology.
RICARDO BARRETO is the Director of the UrbanArts Institute at Massachusetts College of Art and Design which is dedicated to the facilitation of public art projects in the region. Prior to that he worked for the Massachusetts Cultural Council where he was initially Program Coordinator for Individual Artists and then Program Officer for Organizations. With degrees in art history (BA and MA) from Oberlin College, Barreto has a long track record of managing art projects, and as a curator of many shows in the United States, Mexico and Europe. He has written numerous exhibition catalogues and has published essays on a variety of arts related topics.
SARAH HUTT is a multi-media artist and arts advocate living in Boston. Her work is included in numerous private and public collections, including those of the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston; the Fogg Art Museum, Harvard University, Cambridge; the DeCordova Museum in Lincoln, Massachusetts; SUNY-Potsdam, Potsdam, New York; and Bucknell University, Lewisburg, PA. Hutt has perviously served in the Mayor’s Office in Boston as Director of Visual Arts Programming and as the Director of the Boston Art Commission.
RACHEL BARRETT uses her work as an investigation into the everyday, an effort to connect with and memorialize the world she encounters and the disappearing city of New York that has been her home for nearly a decade. Her photographs have been widely exhibited in both solo and group shows, featured in the New York Times and various private collections. She was raised in Cambridge, but is currently based out of New York City.
NEIL FREEMAN is an artist and urbanist whose work has been exhibited at the London Design Museum, the Brooklyn Academy of Music and Flushing Town Hall. He currently lives and works in Cambridge, Massachusetts.

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My Bicycling Scheme for visiting friends in Atlanta

Visiting my family and friends in Atlanta is great, but nothing offsets my fun index more than having to drive EVERYWHERE. When you live in Atlanta, you don’t know any better and the 45 minute drives seem like nothing. On the flip side, when you have lived the past 8 years riding your bike, walking or taking mass transit for transportation, you get extremely spoiled.

You see, unlike traveling by car, when you bike, walk or use mass transit, the time is your’s. No worries about traffic jams and even if there is one, there’s always a book to keep you content on a bus or subway. Additionally, there’s the health benefits, sense of community and opportunity to be outside….not to mention the environmental impact.

Kyle and I are renting a Prius to drive down to Atlanta from Boston, mostly because we want to bring the dogs, but even more because we get to bring our bikes and his guitars.

I cannot wait to visit the city now that I know I won’t be held hostage by our car. Especially in Newnan, GA.

Towards the end of our week there, Kyle is driving down to Mobile, Al for a wedding and I get to go see my friends, Sara, Julie and Tracy. Like any big city, they live pretty far from one another. Unlike other big cities, the mass tranportation system (MARTA) is underutilized. This is my perfect opportunity to ride my bike, use the bus and ride the subway in Atlanta.

My trip is as follows:
1) Ride my bike on Thursday from Newnan to Palmetto (13 miles)

Newnan to Palmetto MARTA Bus
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2) Ride MARTA bus #180 from Palmetto to College Park train station (35 minutes)
3) Ride MARTA subway from College Park to North Springs (30 minutes)
4) Ride Marta bus #85 or 185 from North Springs to Roswell Shopping Center (15 minutes)
5) Ride Bike from Roswell Shopping Center to Sara’s (8 miles)

02/02/2009 Route
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6) On Friday, Bike from Sara’s to Julie’s (19 miles)

Sara in Woodstock to Julie in Norcross
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7) On Saturday, Bike from Julie’s to Tracy’s (20 miles)

Julie\&#039s to Tracy\&#039s
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Woo-hoo, then Kyle picks me up from Tracy’s on Sunday to make the road trip back to Boston! Now I will be relaxed with my friends.

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